Last updated: July 2026 · Reviewed by John Pierre Saliba, Director and Mortgage Broker, MFAA Accredited
How Separation and Divorce Affect Your Home Loan Options
Separation triggers a range of financial decisions that intersect directly with home lending, who keeps the home, how the joint mortgage is refinanced, how child support and maintenance affect borrowing capacity, and how to get a new loan as a single applicant. This guide explains the key lending implications at each stage of the separation process.
The most important thing I tell clients going through separation is: understand your finance options before you finalise the property settlement, not after. If you're considering keeping the home, get a borrowing capacity assessment on your single income first. If you're planning to buy a new property after settlement, know what you can borrow. Making financial decisions without this information leads to consent orders that can't be executed.
The Property Settlement Process
Australian family law requires property to be divided between separating parties, through either a negotiated financial agreement or a Family Court order (consent orders). The settlement determines who gets what, including whether one party keeps the home and pays the other out, or whether the home is sold and proceeds divided.
- Negotiated agreement: Both parties agree on the division, often with solicitors involved. A Binding Financial Agreement (BFA) can formalise this.
- Consent orders: The agreed settlement is filed with the Family Court. Once sealed by the court, it becomes legally enforceable and triggers stamp duty exemptions.
- Contested proceedings: If parties can't agree, the Family Court determines the division, typically based on contributions, future needs and the size of the asset pool.
Stamp Duty Exemptions on Property Transfers
In most Australian states, property transfers between separating spouses or de facto partners under a court order or BFA are exempt from stamp duty. This is a critical financial benefit, particularly in NSW where stamp duty on a $1M property is approximately $40,500. Confirm the specific conditions with your solicitor, as requirements vary by state.
Refinancing After a Consent Order
Once a consent order is in place directing that one party keeps the property, the keeping party typically has a set timeframe (often 90–180 days) to complete the refinance into their sole name. This requires:
- A new loan application in your name only
- Single-income serviceability assessment
- Independent property valuation (for LVR assessment)
- Payment of buyout amount to departing party on settlement
- Transfer of title to sole name
New Purchase After Separation
If neither party keeps the family home and you're buying independently after settlement, lenders assess you as a standard single applicant. Key considerations:
- Child support or maintenance received counts as income (with documentation)
- Child support or maintenance paid counts as a liability
- Family Tax Benefit can be included as income
- Settlement proceeds count as deposit/savings
- A clean period of 3–6 months post-separation with stable bank statements helps your application
Timeline: From Separation to New Loan
- Separation to consent orders: 3–12 months (varies significantly)
- Consent orders to refinance settlement: 4–8 weeks
- New purchase pre-approval: 2–5 business days once documents are in order